Who wouldn't want to have great sex...

Most people don't have sex just to do it, cause nothings on TV, many people have sex to feel something so mind-blowing, so electric, incredibly amazing that they can barely stand the next day. I mean what is it that we have this need to have great sex not for the purpose of procreation, but for the purpose of cumming. Don't get me wrong, I like to fuck just as much as the next person, but I feel like there is a point in your life where there should be a deeper purpose behind it all. I may not be as experienced as others, because of my ripe young age...lol...but at the same time I have had many experiences, good times and bad. I just feel like I haven't had the kind of body trembling, mind blowing, toe-curling, can't walk the next day type sex in soooooo long that...good sex doesn't cut it anymore. Because great sex is in such short supply, I wonder sometimes is it love that makes sex better or is it they way you live your life. From my own experiences, when I was in a committed relationship, I had some great (guarnateed) sex. Although it was great sometimes, it wasn't great everytime for various reasons. When it came to a one night stand se, it was hit and miss and not quite as guaranteed, because I could go out and not meet anyone worth taking home. Is it too much to ask to get great sex without putting your whole heart into the act of passion you are having. To conclude my rantings, i wanted to give you a heads up, that in upcoming blogs i will be answering the questions of some of my friends to get the ball rolling, till i get more followers/readers.

Story time...

The reason I became so interested in the affairs of sex, is because my first time, like a lot of girls I know, wasn't the idea of romantic or for that matter even good. I wasn't in love, I wanted to sleep with a different guy but I liked him so much I didn't want him to be my first for the fear of "virginitis" (a term i coined for those people who become attached to the people who take their virginity). I figured that the hype for sex was clearly over exaggerated, because what i experienced was not glamorous, sexy, fun anything that the media makes sex out to be. I didn't want to be discouraged by my misfortunate first time, so I got back up on the horse and tried again, this time with the guy I had a huge crush on. It was better, but I felt like since I was the common denominator in this situation maybe it was me that was bad at sex. At this point I was determined to get the glamorous sex I craved. I began reading, watching, asking friends, and basically anything under the sun I could to know more about sex. To make this long story a little shorter, I didn't think about the best way to learn is to start having sex. I learned that you learn about technique but just like sports, music and other hobbies, pratice makes perfect, or at least for better sex. Much love and happiness...enjoy your night.

The First Time...

Let me introduce myself....My name for all intensive purposes is Dymond Diva...This blog is a way for me to express my emotions. Basically because I can't really tell my family and friends about the life I lead, I need an outlet. If you happen to wonder by and read this blog from time to time, please feel free to comment and ask questions. I decided that if I want to live my life having sex as much as I did that I should learn as much as I can about it. I am a self taught expert in sexual encounters. I will thru this blog share my experiences, my knowledge, and my compassion to help others have a great sex life. So if you stop by tell your friends to check it out. I will try to post daily. Much love and happiness...enjoy your night.