Truth or Dare

I am giving everyone the opportunity to challenge me.

Ask me a question, and I will give you the God's honest truth.
Dare me to take a risk, and I will take a picture of the completed task and I will post a slide show of it.

If you would like to, send me an email @ dymonddiva2010@yahoo.com
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Flavor of the Week

Dammit I forgot again to do the Flavor on Monday. ugh anyway this week's flavor is

Curly Hair

I am back to the Curly hair. It makes me feel more sexual, and flirty. It gives me an air of confidence to be wild that I don't have when I rock the straight hair. Maybe I will find a new person to play with this weekend, with all the party festivities going on. Anyway, I am going to Whip My Hair like Willow Smith and be onto the next one.

Flavor of The Week

So I swear one of these days I will get the flavor out on a monday and not on a tuesday or wednesday when the week is practically over and down hill. One day; but any how, this week's flavor is

Finding A Worthy Cuddle Buddy

I will put the application out there to some worthy applicants and get some prize choices. I'm not one for being a big cuddler, but maybe I can get some good coitus out of it as well. This rainy season is especially lonely for me, because of al lthe wedding stuff recently, I want a special someone to hug up on, not for life just for the next few months whiles its cold. Just a thought, but if you don't have it, maybe you should look into it.

It's Over: I Said It First!

As my friends and I enter into the phase in our life where we are looking for "grown up relationships", as we like to call it jokingly, we notice that it is harder to leave someone that is bad for us. Once you've been with someone for so long you forget what its like to be single, so when the relationship is not be working, people tend to be scared about the inevitable "break-up". This in turn reverts to a childish game of "i ended it first, so I win" like ending a bad relationship is a contest. This game reeks of insecurity on either part, because when you end a relationship weather being the dumper or dumpee it sucks, so instead of trying to end it first or forcing the hand of your counterpart it is a cop-out of dealing with real emotions and real relationship problems. This is past the day and age of puppy love and we'll be together forever, we are in reality, do I work for you and do you work for me?

F.I.D.S.

This is something I came up with, for the ladies I worked with at camp. it was a long month away from relationships and things we just really enjoy but couldn't really get to while at work.

F- food
I- ice cream
D- dick
S- sleep

Now I know what you are probably thinking, what on earth made you think of this. well let me explain each one and you will get the point.
F- food
Good food was in short supply. We were stuck with a fine cafeteria, but it was still cafeteria food. Hit and miss on most days. Coming from a city where you can get good food just about anywhere, it was hard to deal with for such a long time of the same old thing remixed and made worse.

I- ice cream
Not a constant need on its own, but when you got kids running around all the time and they eat all the ice cream when you finally have a taste for it, this can be pretty frustrating. So a good scoop of ice cream on a hot Chicago day would have been nice to have.

D- dick
Pretty self explanatory. No Purple as we would tell the kids for over a month. No nookie for a long time makes Dymond Diva not a happy camper. (No Pun Intended for my co-workers)
S- sleep
Sleep was in very short supply we wanted to be with each other all the time, but had so many duties that we ate up the little sleep time we had bonding with each other. So sleep was a big necessity that needed to happen.

Now anytime I need a little something extra like one of my letters in F.I.D.S. I let it be known, so I can put good juju in the air to make it come into fruition.

What your underwear says about you? (chick version)

• Thong/G-string- It mostly means that you don’t wish to have your panty line seen, but these underwear aren’t really doing anything but being butt floss. No I am not a hater because my cakeums don’t fit in a thong or G-string, I got ass for days and guys love it. At any rate they are meant to be sexy and draw in the appeal of possibly not wearing any underwear.

• Boy shorts- These give even the flattest of butts some shape and appeal. They give the support and comfort of granny panties with the appeal of a thong. They are sexy and functional in my opinion.

• Granny panties- You are probably very insecure and lack the confidence to pull off something like a thong or even boy shorts. None the less you still need to wear under garments so you pick these in safe neutral colors. Its okay my granny gets them from the same place and swears by them. Or you are an elderly lady in which case this is perfectly acceptable.

• Boxers- All I can say about this is either you are the masculine one in the relationship with a woman or you and your guy have a lot of arguments on whose boxers are whose.

• Commando- It is very unladylike. Under no circumstances should you leave your house with no panties on. I don’t care how tight your dress, pants, skirt, shorts whatever, it shouldn’t happen just to be free of panty lines or for easy access. The only circumstance this is allowed to happen is when you are having sexy time with your mate in the house, as in a sexy costume or lingerie.

Late Night Read...

With my breasts supple, my hips curved, my pussy wet, and my thighs squeezed, he picks my body up and throws me to the bed in an excited furry. Spreading my legs open to expose my freshly shaved pussy glistening from my juices. He glides his hand all over feeling every inch of me inside and out. He brings his hand to his mouth to taste my juices and with every drop his anticipation to drink up my sweet nectar grows stronger. Plunging in tongue first I feel his monstrous tongue get deeper inside while slurping up every drop. The pure ecstasy I feel from him stroking my clitoris with his tongue can only be explained through the number of times I climax. He leaves my body exhausted and divinely satisfied.
I slowly move towards the shower and as I am lathering up in my steam filled room, I can feel a gentle touch run down my back and soft kisses caress my neck. I turn around to embark on a journey of discovering each others body with our mouths, hands and souls being completely intertwined in this moment. With his rock hard throbbing member he slowly penetrates my pussy lips. I feel every inch of his thrust inside my walls. He grabs my voluptuous backside and pushes deeper than I've ever felt before. Picking me up and leaning against the wall he thrusts in a steady motion that has our breaths in sync. I bite his lip and he bites mine as we slow down and move to the counter. Watching his stroke in the mirror and how he penetrates me I cum letting my juices flow down his cock. He bends me over the sink and he hits deep inside my pussy while spanking my wet naked rear end. When he releases his load, we both just lay bent over the counter, and with his dick still inside me I squeeze my kegal muscles to grab his shaft. To hear him moan in pleasure is the sweetest sound to my ears.
As I lay in bed with the purest form of elation on my face and in my heart, I am with him fully. Our heart beating as one, our breaths shared and our souls collided to birth a union of passion and pleasure.

Flavor of the Week

I really gotta start making sure i do this on Monday's, but at any rate, this weeks flavor is

Finding New Girl-Friends

and this is not to say that my current girl friends are being dropped or anything like that, I just feel like I have gotten to comfortable and need to mix things up. I am sure as quickly as i have come to this flavor of the week, it will dissipate mostly because bitches get on my nerves when they are around for too long. However until it does dissipate I will make a valiant effort to accomplish this goal.

Wedding fever…

No I’m not experiencing this crazy phenomenon however it has been brought to light because my sister recently tied the knot. On October 10^th 2010 my sister along with 30 something thousand other couples got married. As much as I am infatuated with the ideology of “LOVE”, I don’t understand the need for us as humans to settle down and be with only one person especially in the age of everyone cheating, being on the “Down Low”, and just all around not being faithful to themselves or the one they are with. I feel like there are to many high risk men and women for the sanctity of marriage to be as pure as it was in more old fashioned times. As a whole, society has entirely too many options and is more openly sexually to be completely committed to one person. I know we have all heard this from me a million times before, but people marriage isn’t for everyone, but I do feel like in many cases it can still be positive without the negative aspects. So with my opinion being more and more solidified, I wish them the best of luck, happiness, and longevity possible. I love them dearly and welcome him and his family into our family with open arms and positive vibes their way.

Top Ten Reasons You Need To Be By Yourself

In no particular order of importance:

1. You get mad about what people post as their status update, tweet, away message or blog post. Stop adding extras onto everything, it will be a lot less stressful.
2. You look at dating as an excuse to get a free meal from a guy ~ or ~ You expect to get pussy because you paid for dinner.
3. If you can't afford a $30 meal for 2 at chilli's
4. Your goal in life is to be in the entertainment industry because you want the groupies
5. You change men/women like they are an accessory
6. You say you don't know how to love after you have sex, but you said I love you to get in the bed.
7. You have no domestic skills.
8. There are no clearly defined goals and aspirations for yourself.
9. If you have violent tendencies and don't know how to control it.
10. If you don't love yourself for who you are.

Pick One or The Other

1) Never find your bliss ~ or ~ never find your true love

2) Be trapped in an unhappy marriage ~ or ~ lose everything in divorce

3) Live life completely unattached to any emotion ~ or ~ unattached to any logic

4) Never achieve pure happiness ~ or ~ always have feelings of doubt

5) Have the ability to help others fall in love ~ or ~ never fall in love yourself

6) Be an amazing lover ~ or ~ be an amazing companion

7) Live in the past ~ or ~ live in the future

Answer the questions in the comment section below!

For The Love of Money

What is the motivation behind a guy saying “I don’t make enough money to be your man”? I didn’t know this was a job and had salary requirements. Then again with the materialism that is in Los Angeles, you do need to prove your net worth to date even the most ratchet of female. So where does the line get crossed when you are dating someone for the stability of them being able to support your spending habits and dating that person for the love of their personality and character. Every man isn’t going to have bill gates money or even pro athlete/rapper money, but a man that is working hard for his paper that has goals of saving up is worth more than a stank look and brush off. He can’t keep you in Louis Vutton and Gucci, but then again, you can’t afford it yourself anyway so why would you expect him to shower you with those gifts. If you can love him when he has nothing, when he gets paid he’s more likely to stay with you because you are his foundation, his constant, when the world is against him. I guess there is just a difference between getting it unexpectedly and scavenging for it. One is for a bonus in addition to love and the other is about loving money.

Sexy Vs. Skanky (Cuddle Season Edition)

Sexy: Showing up with a romantic comedy and hot cocoa

Skanky: Showing up with magnums and a porno

Sexy: Spooning through the night
Skanky: getting excited and poking her back

Sexy: Cuddling with a teddy bear he bought with is voice recorded on in
Skanky: Leaving the dirty sheets on the bed to comfort you when he’s not there

Sexy: Enjoying the moment and time spent with said person
Skanky: Asking if you are in a relationship post-coitus

Sexy: Leaving cute notes for the other person to find unexpectedly
Skanky: Leaving naughty pictures of past sexcapades

Sexy: An elegant meal prepared with nothing but sensual foods you eat with your fingers
Skanky: Eating a meal off of each other

My Rules for Cuddle Season

1. Cupcaking on the phone is tolerated but only when my girls are not around.
2. You can spend the night, but when I wake up i shouldn't see your face or smell your breath until after i have had my morning coffee.
3. Cell phones will be turned off once we enter the room to lay in each others arms. Nothing is more important than you for however long we cuddle.
4. If we have sex because we are so wrapped up in passion and it is whack do not re-apply next year.
5. I will cook you the most amazing meal full of sensual foods, sweet and savory. It takes a lot of time and planning so don't expect gourmet every night, i'm not Martha Stewart.
6. Sex is a benefit not a requirement for this season.
7. If I come to see you, that place better be spic and span, because my place is always clean.
8. Presents are good for girls who need you to buy them things to keep them around. spending money out the ass is useless in trying to impress me. Besides we are not dating just cuddling.
9. Dating is not allowed unless it was established before cuddle season. I got a dude for that ;-)
10. Bring a movie or something, becasue I'm not about to just stare at your face or the wall the whole night.

*For Entertainment Purposes Only*
**except for numbers 1, 3-7, 10 i'm for serious**

What Are We?

Are we friends? Are we lovers? Are we dating? Are we fuck buddies? I usually don't get caught up with labels, but if i can't justify seeing you and answering your texts or calls, i just can't seem to wrap my head around why I care about responding, and this in turn makes me less likely to respond. If we're homies that occasionally sleep together, that's cool I will hit you up and we can kick it, but every time I see you we aren't going to have sex. (It's just not going to happen) If we are fuck buddies, then that's what we do, no questions asked. I see your name pop up on my phone or you see mine, we know what's about to go down. There are so many names for what you can call a relationship between two people, however one person calling it a relationship and the other calling it a late-night lover is just plain bad for business.

*Personal Note*

 I always hate this conversation because I am always on the receiving end of it. What are we? I'm pretty sure I am the chick so why would you ask me about an emotionally attached commitment label.

If you have to ask, its probably not what you think it is. This not always being the case, so there is definitely the exception to the rule. All I can say is if you are straight to the point from jump, there is no need for the infamous question, What are we? Know your role and play your position!

Flavor Of The Week

So i feel like this is something I am going to keep up with. This week's flavor is

Light Skinned and/or Latin guys

Let me explain. You all know I LOVE chocolate guys, but as the title says the flavor of the week is what I am feeling right now. Not to say that I don't like chocolate guys, i just got a thing for the light skinned and Latino ones this week. We all know how I feel about relationships and commitment, so all I am looking for is just a crazy passionate we can't help but rip off each others clothes and ravish each other nights of non-committal sex. I don't want any emotion attached, hell i don't even need to know his real name. I just need to let go of all stress, emotion, and passion in one intense night so as to get a clean slate to build on. But I digress, I am sure I will find it soon, but until then, reading and writing will have to suffice.

All New Entries Coming Soon...

I realized that writing makes me happy, no matter how long or short, getting my thoughts and feelings out makes me happy so to take a hiatus from that is just silly. So expect lots of new fresh ideas and great lists, and funny stories to come. I love you all and Take Care.

The One The Only

Dymond Diva