The cold part about sending mixed signals, is when you do it yourself, without realizing. I had a pretty deep conversation with one of my closest girlfriends, and she really put me on game. I don't intentionally do it, but shit happens right? So let me explain the situation a little, Girl meets boy at party, instantly click. Boy invites girl and friend back to his house with his friends. Girl and boy go off to have a little fun. girl gets drunk and gives her number to guys friend, because her phone is dead and he was like nowhere to be found. fast forward two weeks, girl gets invited to house party at the same house. Guy calls girl out on giving her number to friend, but friend lied and said girl asked for his number. Girl has written friend off as a decent person, so Guy and Girl flirt some more and end up hooking up. Girl talks to guy about kicking it again one on one, guy gets defensive and act like girl is trying to date him. WHOA there guy, girl just said she liked him and wanted to get to know him better because he's cool people. nobody is trying to pursue you like a relationship. We can be friends that mess around. so it was left at that.
What I want/ expect from him:
- a cool dude to kick it with occasionally
- someone to hook-up with when the mood strikes
- someone that knows how to function and can actually hang with my drinking
- a nice set of dudes that can function with me and my girls.
What he heard and freaked out about
- She wants to hang out one on one and date me
- She wants a relationship
- She's gonna get mad over stupid stuff cause she's a girl. and girls do that
- She's 24 I'm 30ish this is gonna get complicated and I'm gonna hurt her
So if I sent off the below vibe but what I said was the above statements, I understand the confusion and I wish I could explain that without sounding crazy. I guess all I can do is wait till I see what he does and slowly explain myself, if not oh well, you live you learn, you find a guy with a bigger penis ;)
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