I messed up a situation with a potentially great guy, because I wasn't patient. But looking back at it, its hard to trust my judgement on the whole situation. To many factors to take into consideration.
- We had an understanding between us, and then feelings changed (on both ends)
- He couldn't give me what I wanted, but didn't want to let me go
- I couldn't give him what he wanted, but I didn't want to let him go
- He's still figuring himself out, and I'm good with where I am
- It hurts to think we could have done something great together
Things like this happen and my quick decision making may have shot me in the foot, but I hope it's not a wound that won't heal. It may be wobbly, but hopefully in time it will get better, but until then, I guess I suffer through my mistakes and learn from them.
Men are weird like that.. Well at least I know I am sometimes.. I might not be attracted to someone or see a futre with them but keep them at my side until I find better. And that's because the facade of the relationship is better than nothing. Now it might seem wrong from the outside perspective, but I'm completely honest of my intentions once figuring them out.. But in your case being impatient might have saved you heartache, especially if you said neither of you could provide what you wanted..
ReplyDeleteJust use these moments as treasured learning experiences that will enable your heart and mind for your next suitor..