"I have a hard time trusting a man that wants to be with me, but doesn't want to be with me"
I have no problem having a boy toy that I can call up for the get down, but there is a line I can't cross emotionally with them. If we are just fucking you don't get to see my heart, or be apart of my ambitions. We are here for this and this alone, so if I stop talking to you or become unresponsive I feel as though you are crossing into territory that is not yours to invade. My favorite boy toy of all time, knows me better sexually than anyone else. We have had relations for over 6 years, and still going strong. He gets out of line calling me for friend type shit or trying me on some boyfriend type ish, but the dick is good, so on occasion I let him slide. But back to my main point, I already have a hard time trusting men, but a man that wants to lay with me but not be with me, gets the bare minimum effort sexually, and gets nothing emotionally. You aren't even worth the emotional investment, because your man goal is to get me naked and make your dick wet. Never sleep with someone you already have an emotional relationship with, because if they don't want to be with you, then they shouldn't be in your bed. I have learned this the hard way, but I have finally learned it.
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