What's up with these females?

"Why is it girls are so retarded when it come to sex and relationships?" This is a question ALL of my guy friends keep asking me. Well the only answer I can come up with, because I'm a girl, is that they put their heart, soul and passion into sex and relationships instead of going on basic animalistic instinct like most men do. Women have this constant problem of becoming emotionally involved in the act of sex cause that's how we are built. Now don't get me wrong not all women are built as exact duplicates in the emotion department, cause I personally have learned to act like a lady and think like a man, but for some it's a lot easier said than done. One of my best girl friends, has gotten her heart broken by the same man since we were in High school together. Numerous amounts of people in her life have told her he was bad news, but she was so emotionally involved with him that she couldn't see that he was no good. Please understand the blame is not completely to be placed on her, he was no better for leading her to believe he was something great when he clearly wasn't. I am not going to sit here telling you that girls are better than boys or vice versa. Girls do some pretty stupid things when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex and Guys are in the same boat, I will however say that there are a million things that people can work on to limit the level of stupid actions that occurs in relationships. For a few basics,
-talk to person you are "with" make sure you are on the same page as far as relationshi status.
-be willing to walk away if they can't give you what you want
-don't feel obligated to be with someone for their sake, it will never work out in the long run.
-Get to know your opposite (i.e. what they like/dislike, personality traits)
If these intrigued you or you have more questions please feel free to ask away or contact me for more. Untill the next question rolls my way Much love and happiness...enjoy your night.