Love Advice

Been kind of M.I.A. fro the blogging scene, but here i am. I noticed that more and more I am looking at the lack of the type of men I would like to surround myself with so it has encouraged me to adapt to what is around me. I am definitely more inclined these days to look beyond a good fuck and look at a man for his depth, his character and potential relationship standing in my life. Still somewhat picky, but less judgey and way more simple in my pursuit of the man i want by my side on this road to success. I know how to play this "infamous game" and I know it well, my only problem is living by the rules I know that work, when building a successful and long lasting relationship. I can give excellent advice all day, yet when it comes down to it, I can't give my self the same insight. Crazy right I know. I have a particular instance that i'm referencing, but i don't want to jinx anything by talking about it, so cross your finger for me that it goes well.