So I was recently having a conversation with a man about how I treat men in my life. There are a few different categories he explained to me, Mack, Pimp, Player, Regular Joe. According to said man, I am a Mack. Not generally a title women get associated with on the regular, but fitting me so well. He said this, because of my very blunt expressions of how i'm feeling and how I deal with guys. I can see his point of view and he tried to explain it, but let me give you a little context as to why he finally decided that this is how I was.
Example# 1
Him: (2:06am) I miss you!
Me: (5:26am) thats surprising cause you acted like i wasn't shit the last time talked to you
Him: (10:44 am) Do you wanna come see me?
Me: (12:08) naw i'm good..you were kind of cool but the way you just hang up on me and try to coax me into stuff when you don't get what you want is a little childish and I could have sworn i was the younger one as you so clearly stated when I met you..i wish you the best of luck in this new year finding someone that fits you, because i'm sure its not me
Example #2
Random guy: Where's your boyfriend?
Me: I don't have one.
Random guy: A pretty girl like you, you not dating anyone?
Me: that's not what you asked..i'm dating three guys, but i don't have a boyfriend.
Random guy: well can I at least be your friend?
So apparently this makes me a mack, because I don't hold back feelings and I tell you what it is even if it's a hard truth to swallow. I would just call this being real...but hey that's me :)
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