Maybe its me!

My mom spoke some truth to me the other day when I was telling her about this guy that I thought was ridiculous. I was telling her that he said he missed me, but I had seen him the night before, its only been like 11 hours. So she says to me, you are cold piece, and that i'm not ready for a relationship. I kind of already knew that, but something in me told me to defend myself. Regardless, this got me thinking, about the times when I get hit on.

• When i'm nice, you think its cute to be persistent. but you don't realize, I'm not turning you down because i'm not interested, its because i'm not in a place to be with you.
• When i'm mean, you call me a bitch, or stuck-up. But you don't realize i'm trying to deter any future advances, because i'm not ready to be with you.
• When I accept and can't fulfill my obligations as a woman in your life, you call me young or a little girl. but you fail to realize you pushed up on me not the other way around.
• When I tell you i'm not ready, you push on anyway thinking "you're so smart you can fix anything". But you don't realize that I told you I wasn't ready to be with you, so this was destined to fail.

There is no way i can make you feel better and understand that I am not ready to be with anyone. If I wasn't open to a relationship to begin with, why would you think that would change if you put more expectations on me. Just like women expect men to change when they get in relationships. IF THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH ISN'T READY, YOU WILL GET YOUR HEART BROKEN WHEN THEY LEAVE YOU OR YOU BREAK UP!