I don't want to be 60 when it happens...

I hate those love stories of it wasn't never the right time. one person's ready and then the other is not. They marry other people and find each other again after kids grow up and spouses pass away. I hate those love stores why? Because you can't enjoy a relationship like your 20s in your 60s. The back and forth love struggle is doomed the moment you realize you're perfect for each other and you can't get on the same wave length. Maybe in another lifetime it could be a beautiful fairytale romance, but I never liked those anyway so to me it just wasn't as destined as previously planned. I would much rather find my love today than to wait till I was 60 and lived my life with another man, because that means who I was destined to be with I couldn't share my life with. But I guess that's why so many of my friends are hopeless romantic, and I am a realist.