How To Love A Black Woman...

Black women are the rarest of creatures, they can make you crazy, happy, angry calm all wrapped into one. So when people say black women are too much work, its probably because they don't want to put in the effort to deal with the strong will. Now before the guys that read my blog get their undies in a bunch let me explain to you a little something, Black women are strong willed, strong headed and goal oriented. They tend to be well rounded, multi-faceted in many skills and very nurturing. The image of black women has been tainted by the ratchet, hot ghetto messes that are put on pedestals instead of the Michelle Obama's , Lena Horne's, and Gwendolyn Brooks of the times. If you don't know who any of these women are, you've just proved my point. Now to continue, how to love a black woman is simple and complicated all in one. I hope you wouldn't expect anything less.

• We like to feel wanted and needed but don't want you to be clingy.
• We are willing to go to work, have the kids and keep the household, with the intention that you will help even when we say we don't want it.
• Don't mistake the gold diggers for the ones who want financial security. (I can do it on my own, but a family that I want requires two stable and healthy incomes)
• I will ask my girlfriends for advice on how to deal with you as you will ask your boys, so when I come back with some outlandish theory, all you have to do is settle my concerns by proving you are on the up and up. ( if you're not doing dirt then why are you so defensive?)
• No woman black or otherwise wants a weak man. She might get one, but she doesn't want one.
• Black women are pre-disposed to have a cold exterior. (warm her heart and she's your forever)
• Through history, black women have been looked at as a conquest and not a treasure, so when you find gold don't act like its foil.

I feel like this is a broad enough overview of how to successfully love a black woman, but keep in mind it varies case to case, because women aren't the same just like men aren't. But with a general idea it makes things a little bit more manageable ;-)