February is right around the corner...

While I am anti-roses, cause they are too cliche', I do enjoy what the day is supposed to symbolize. It is a beautiful way for couples to set aside time for one another in an otherwise busy schedule. on the flip side however, it is a day for single people to realize yet another year of not being with someone, or it can be a personal celebration for love of self. This all depends on if you're a glass half empty or half full kind of person. This year I don't know that I will have a "valentine", but I know i will be spending it eating cupcakes and a fancy dinner I cook at any rate. I know I will have a few phone calls and texts from some girl and guy friends a little sad about this holiday, but to me I fell like if you can't love yourself on this holiday without being bitter, then why would anyone else love you on this holiday still bitter, because he or she didn't do enough. I'm sure guys can appreciate that I do hold this day as a day for women, but I also recognize March 13th as steak and blow job day. So if you can get your end fulfilled with cupcakes and good sex, I can fulfill my day with cooking you a fat steak and giving you the best head of your life (not that my head game is any slouch on any other day). So enjoy your love whether it is the love between you and someone special or if it is taking some personal time to show appreciation for self.