Things we should know, but a lot men and women don't.
MEN---->
- If you forget to call a woman back, she remembers every single time, and will use it against you when its to her benefit. So it may seem insignificant to you, but you will be in a world of angst later.
- Flowers and chocolates will always be a good idea, but the type of flowers and chocolates vary for every woman.
- Hearing not just listening to the boring crap your woman says will set you apart from other men who are not put up on "game" like you.
- Making her choose between you and her friends will make her crazy. If the two of you break up, that's when the crazy comes out, because she doesn't have friends to help get over you so she takes it out on you. That's why its good to have separate friends AND mutual friends.
- Get TiVo or DVR it will help your relationship GUARANTEED
- Don't tell a woman you want a relationship if you still got side pieces and hoes in your phonebook. She will find out and you will lose out on a good woman
- Calling a woman a hoe is like her calling you a nigga instead of a man.
- I don't agree with cheating, but if you are gonna do dirt, be smart. Don't give your woman, keys to the apartment, passwords to social network sites, or the number to your homies. Don't give your hoe any real info or let her come to your place she will show up and get you caught up.
- No matter how you feel about it for a woman SEX does not equal Love, but it is very emotional for her. Most women confuse their emotional connection with men she has slept with as love, because nobody ever told her its not the same emotion. So don't tell her you love her when you nut if you don't. She will most likely get confused.
WOMEN---->
- Your girlfriends only know so much about men. So stop asking them for advice and get some male friends that can help you out.
- You see these trophy wives in the movies and on TV, them hoes get divorced left and right, the ones that marry ballers and last are the ones that have goals and jobs of their own.
- Just because you learn how to cook and clean doesn't make you less of a woman. It has nothing to do with him, but take pride in keeping your house in order.
- Be appreciative when your man is trying. He deserves a good woman like you deserve a good man.
- Instead of knocking strong black men down with your nagging and negativity, build him up. Just because your girlfriends are jealous they don't have a good man like you, don't play into mob mentality when you know he treats you like a queen. "I wouldn't never let a nigga do me like that" *mental thought should be* "bitch that's why you don't have a man now" Unless he ain't shit then she right. Basically think for yourself.
- If you're not ready and he leaves because of it he didn't value you to begin with and isn't worth the time or tears.
- If he treats you right and doesn't do dirt, don't cheat on him, you don't mesh with him and men take it way harder than women do when they get cheated on. He's a good man that will hold it against every chick that follows.
- Once you do something freaky in the bedroom, there is a standard set. He knows you will do it, because you have, so don't do anything you wouldn't want to repeat.
- Don't let others dictate your SELF-esteem. The only one that can judge you is God and yourself. Love of self should come first before anyone can love you or you can love them.
MEN---->
- If you forget to call a woman back, she remembers every single time, and will use it against you when its to her benefit. So it may seem insignificant to you, but you will be in a world of angst later.
- Flowers and chocolates will always be a good idea, but the type of flowers and chocolates vary for every woman.
- Hearing not just listening to the boring crap your woman says will set you apart from other men who are not put up on "game" like you.
- Making her choose between you and her friends will make her crazy. If the two of you break up, that's when the crazy comes out, because she doesn't have friends to help get over you so she takes it out on you. That's why its good to have separate friends AND mutual friends.
- Get TiVo or DVR it will help your relationship GUARANTEED
- Don't tell a woman you want a relationship if you still got side pieces and hoes in your phonebook. She will find out and you will lose out on a good woman
- Calling a woman a hoe is like her calling you a nigga instead of a man.
- I don't agree with cheating, but if you are gonna do dirt, be smart. Don't give your woman, keys to the apartment, passwords to social network sites, or the number to your homies. Don't give your hoe any real info or let her come to your place she will show up and get you caught up.
- No matter how you feel about it for a woman SEX does not equal Love, but it is very emotional for her. Most women confuse their emotional connection with men she has slept with as love, because nobody ever told her its not the same emotion. So don't tell her you love her when you nut if you don't. She will most likely get confused.
WOMEN---->
- Your girlfriends only know so much about men. So stop asking them for advice and get some male friends that can help you out.
- You see these trophy wives in the movies and on TV, them hoes get divorced left and right, the ones that marry ballers and last are the ones that have goals and jobs of their own.
- Just because you learn how to cook and clean doesn't make you less of a woman. It has nothing to do with him, but take pride in keeping your house in order.
- Be appreciative when your man is trying. He deserves a good woman like you deserve a good man.
- Instead of knocking strong black men down with your nagging and negativity, build him up. Just because your girlfriends are jealous they don't have a good man like you, don't play into mob mentality when you know he treats you like a queen. "I wouldn't never let a nigga do me like that" *mental thought should be* "bitch that's why you don't have a man now" Unless he ain't shit then she right. Basically think for yourself.
- If you're not ready and he leaves because of it he didn't value you to begin with and isn't worth the time or tears.
- If he treats you right and doesn't do dirt, don't cheat on him, you don't mesh with him and men take it way harder than women do when they get cheated on. He's a good man that will hold it against every chick that follows.
- Once you do something freaky in the bedroom, there is a standard set. He knows you will do it, because you have, so don't do anything you wouldn't want to repeat.
- Don't let others dictate your SELF-esteem. The only one that can judge you is God and yourself. Love of self should come first before anyone can love you or you can love them.
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