One of my favorite movies/TV shows is "Sex and the City" and I don't know about you all but I am beyond geeked to see the second movie coming out very soon. But I want to talk about Samantha, one of the leading ladies. She is the most promiscuous of the group, and when she falls in love that completes her, but when she is no longer having sex her love is no longer fulfilling. Which begs the question: can you have fulfilling sex without love or a fulfilling love without sex? When you look at shows and movies that center around people and their sexual encounters, it seems to me that the way society is programmed people don't seem to be happy with one, and if they go their whole life without sex or without love they will be horribly bitter in their older age. Single life gets portrayed as people forcibly being sad, alone and/or unfulfilled. I don't know about everyone else, but some of my most fulfilling and happy memories are from single life. Don't get me wrong I had quite a few filling memories committed to someone that I could not and would not replace for anything. I like the relationship life but I LOVE the single life, which is why most of the time I want to be single, but sometimes I wish I had my cupcake moments. I guess if you believe in fairy tales, prince charming and happily ever after, the world is your oyster, because more of the population has this feeling and relationships with love are meant for you. If you believe in unattached realism, welcome to single life with the possibility of a partner.
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