Are we friends? Are we lovers? Are we dating? Are we fuck buddies? I usually don't get caught up with labels, but if i can't justify seeing you and answering your texts or calls, i just can't seem to wrap my head around why I care about responding, and this in turn makes me less likely to respond. If we're homies that occasionally sleep together, that's cool I will hit you up and we can kick it, but every time I see you we aren't going to have sex. (It's just not going to happen) If we are fuck buddies, then that's what we do, no questions asked. I see your name pop up on my phone or you see mine, we know what's about to go down. There are so many names for what you can call a relationship between two people, however one person calling it a relationship and the other calling it a late-night lover is just plain bad for business.
*Personal Note*
I always hate this conversation because I am always on the receiving end of it. What are we? I'm pretty sure I am the chick so why would you ask me about an emotionally attached commitment label.
If you have to ask, its probably not what you think it is. This not always being the case, so there is definitely the exception to the rule. All I can say is if you are straight to the point from jump, there is no need for the infamous question, What are we? Know your role and play your position!
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